Dear married people in the church, Please stop telling single people in the church that someday they will meet a really special person. It's awkward and we don't know what to say, so we usually just nod and smile. Please stop trying to set us up with your single nieces and nephews and grandchildren and sons and daughters and neighbors and cousins and coworkers and uncles and aunts and god children and barbers and insurance agents and mechanics and personal trainers and bankers and hair stylists and car salesmen and neighbor's uncle's mailmen. Please stop telling us not to worry, that it'll happen when we least expect it. That you can't believe that we are single. That it's okay to be single, it's really okay. That you had a friend who was single for a really long time, and then she met the most wonderful and godly gentleman. That you're praying for our future spouse and that you just know that it's going to be a really amazing person becaus...